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The Craig behind Craigslist speaks out!

Thursday, May 21st, 2009

Craig Newmark of Craiglist rarely goes über-public — sure, he’s been known to speak up on behalf of his company, but he (like his chosen user interface) is fairly no-frills.  So I found this WSJ article kind of interesting, in light of the recent decision to close the erotic services category.

Craig states that participating in social media and reviewing sites is an act of patriotism and compassion to other consumers.  I tend to agree — I’m one of the most review-happy people I know, possibly because I’m overly critical, but I like to think of it as simply having high standards.

Especially when something is very pricey or when there is a lot at stake, I’m known to be VERY vocal about it later on.  Usually just a so-so experience warrants no comment, but if I have an experience that’s either extremely positive or extremely negative, you can bet I’ll be mentioning it on Google Reviews, Citysearch, Judy’s Book, Yelp… you  name it.

I’m glad to see Craig encouraging consumers to get involved, especially when it comes to dating-related sites.  I like to think of myself as one of the few positive reviews out there, since I don’t think many people are convinced by the models and actors in eHarmony commercials and Yahoo banner ads.  Here’s hoping that we can start to balance out the often overwhelming negativity surrounding online dating!

Technical Incompatibilities

Thursday, May 7th, 2009

I just came across this article about technical incompatibilities with dating, and it definitely struck a chord.  I can’t stress this enough, daters: Make your level of tech comfort clear from the beginning!

Folks who hate email or texting are likely to wind up insanely annoyed by folks who can’t get enough Twitter in one day.  And daters who are big email or texting users may feel snubbed by dates who don’t get back to them quickly, even though no snub is intended.  (Heck, it took me years to learn that every time I send my mom an email, I have to call her to make sure she gets it!)

When Grant and I first got together, he was big into texting and I was still lukewarm on it.  But I soon adopted it, since I’m not much of a phone person after several years of working as a receptionist.  And now texting is often my preferred communication method, especially with my sweetheart.  (It doesn’t hurt that we now share free text messages with each other.)

I definitely have some friends who are no-text friends, no-email friends, or no-voicemail friends.  I don’t much mind adhering to these quirks, and I do think it’s important to be SOMEWHAT flexible — but this is bound to become a bigger issue with a significant other than with a casual friend.  Communicating with your sweetie shouldn’t be a chore!  The fact that Mr. Right doesn’t respond to your Facebook status updates may well be a deal breaker for some, and a breath of fresh air for others — so keep hunting until you find someone who meshes well with your style!